Praises for the Pages
You’re Not Listening to… What I Have to Say is a powerful, eye-opening anthology that gives voice to what so many girls feel but rarely express. The stories are raw, real, and touching. It’s a reminder of the strength that comes from vulnerability and the importance of truly being heard. Every young woman, parent, or mentor should read this — it has the power to spark healing and hope. A must read for every girl or woman seeking strength, healing and clarification.
Denita Willoughby
CEO, Big Energy Group
I loved reading You’re Not Listening…To What I Have to Say. Not only did I resonate with several of the women’s stories, but the book also pushed me to unpack feelings I never thought I could work through as a teen. It has even helped me navigate communication with my teenage niece, whom I have custody of. This is truly a powerful book and a valuable resource for women of all ages.
La Quita Washington
This is a must read for Parents, Teachers, Grandparents, Everyone! You’re Not Listening to… What I Have to Say, is an inspiring compilation of testimonies from empowering young women. Being able to put your experience in writing for the world to read is brave. These young women, with the help of La Faye, are showing that life is full of hurt and disappointment; they’ve flipped the script and have taken control of their stories. Keep shining a light for the next generation they are not alone, we need to talk more about suicidal thoughts, depression, anxiety, and adversities as we are better together.
Jenice Ball
La Faye Baker delivers an empowering message that reminds young women they are not alone. You’re Not Listening to… What I Have to Say offers hope, strength, and encouragement through real stories of resilience. A heartfelt resource for any teen or young adult navigating life’s challenges with courage.
Dr. Shalonda “Sunshine” Crawford, PsyD
This inspiring book shares powerful stories of the challenges faced by young girls and how they were empowered to overcome mental, physical, and emotional barriers, thereby ultimately redefining their lives.
Jacqueline Newbold-Reese
A powerful read for adolescent girls that illustrates vulnerability and solutions to life’s challenges through fierce self determination and a spirit of triumph. You’re Not Listening to… What I have to Say is a must read that not only empowers but also reminds its readers that we all experience and can overcome life’s uncertainties and challenges.
Qiana M. Bush, MSW, LCSW
Private Psychotherapy Practice Owner
Sharing stories of our experiences is an under-utilized outlet that aids in healing, growth and inspiring others. The space that La Faye Baker has created for these young writers to share their stories in the book, You’re Not Listening to… What I Have to Say, is remarkable and will help countless readers as they navigate their own experiences of adversity. This exploration of real-life narratives addressing various dilemmas and the respective reflections is artfully curated in a way that is digestible and applicable for audiences of all backgrounds.
Crystal M. Yelverton
This book is very inspirational & empowering reading about the struggles of these youth inspired me to continue being of service & investing in the lives of our youth.
Katherine Cooper
I enjoyed reading the experiences, appreciated hearing their voice and all that they have endured. I also enjoyed how they were able to resolve their problems. There are people in my personal life and at my school who are going through similar situations. I resonated with a few of the stories. People tend to suffer in silence.
This book is very helpful and can aid others that may not know how to speak up for themselves, and it provides a resources for solutions to their problems. I recommend this book to anyone that feels they simply need support.
Makaela Ballard
La Faye Baker has masterfully crafted a compelling collection of stories that vividly depict the challenges, triumphs, and resilience of young women. Each narrative dives deep into critical topics such as self-esteem, mental health, childhood trauma, and discrimination, among other topics, offering a profound exploration of these issues. This book not only captivates with its storytelling but also invites readers to embark on a journey of introspection, empowering them to believe in their ability to overcome life’s obstacle.
Crissel Rodriguez
You’re Not Listening… brings forth honest, heart-to-heart conversations about the real struggles teens face, infused with a wise and compassionate voice of encouragement. Its emotional insights and practical affirmations are both timely and universal — resonating with readers at any stage of life.
The Writer’s Boutique
This book hit home. It doesn’t just speak — it makes you listen in the best possible way. Smart, powerful, and unforgettable, it stays with you long after the last page.
NH.x Urban Psalms
La Faye is an essential voice when it comes to the next generation — both as a mentor and advocate for young people, and as a guide and educator for those of us who wish to understand and connect with them. Having broken new ground as a stuntwoman, carving a niche in the entertainment industry without a mentor, she brings deep empathy to her work. I am thrilled that La Faye’s work and insights are now available to teen girls everywhere. These memorable stories will help a new generation feel less alone as they navigate an unprecedented time of challenge and change.
Areva Martin
Civil Rights Attorney, CNN Legal Analyst, Best-Selling Author, Founder & CEO of Special Needs Network
This book provides a lens into the lives of young girls motivated and inspired to be the best that they can be! An amazing and encouraging read!
Sherri Lee-Lewis
Vice-President, Human Resources, Santa Monica College
Ms. La Faye Baker has written a stellar book. She reflects the transition from youth to adulthood through stories of racial discrimination, foster care, youthful angst, and the broader focus on the systematic failure of social services. She uses personal experience, optimism, and intellect to benefit others. Ms. Baker has done a remarkable job of keeping the vitality of oral deliveries alive on the written page. Her generosity of time, spirit, and personal resources has brought power to disenfranchised girls. I highly recommend this book.
Dr. Verda Bradley, Ph. D, LCSW
You’re Not Listening to… What I Have to Say is an essential guide to getting through the perspectives of living that transform us, especially during the confusing teen years. Thank you, La Faye Baker, for providing a pathway to help teens navigate life’s challenges with solutions to level up.
Stasia Washington
Managing Director, Senior Wealth Manager, Lido
La Faye Baker’s unwavering support and compassion have served as a beacon of hope for young girls navigating through difficult circumstances. Through the platform provided by her organization, these girls have been given the opportunity to share their stories and inspire others through this transformative book project. Her vision has not only empowered them to overcome adversity but has also inspired them to strive for a brighter future filled with endless possibilities.
Darrell Brown
Founder & CEO of The Rewirement Project, Retired Senior Bank Executive
This book of experiences shared by our younger generation will help you to understand the world from their perspective as we journey through their lived experiences…an absolute must read for all.
Arna M. Fulcher
President & CEO of Alford Consulting Group, Nationally recognized Community and Economic Development Strategist, Motivational Speaker
You’re Not Listening to… What I Have to Say takes you through life, love, and lessons learned from living with depression to finding ways to build hope, will, and purpose. I would like to thank the author, La Faye Baker, for sharing this powerful body of work — it is needed and necessary.
My sister committed suicide at the age of twenty-six. She had been treated for clinical depression for many years. The one thing she said over and over again was that “no one was listening.” I have searched for answers as to why she did it, and one thing I am certain of is that she must have felt very alone. I have devoted more than twenty-five years of my professional career to understanding physical and behavioral health as a clinical transformation consultant, college professor, and psychotherapist.
As a licensed clinical social worker, having treated thousands of clients with depression, You’re Not Listening to… What I Have to Say gives readers real, rare, and really important insight into living with depression and finding ways to build resilience. The raw and honest reflections from women living with depression let the reader know that they are not alone in their silent pain. The statistics and factual information paired with the unfiltered personal stories create solidarity among those suffering from depression in their deep desire to be seen, heard, and understood.
Louisa Eyler
Professor of Human Behavior & Licensed Clinical Social Worker
I have known La Faye Baker for many years and she truly has a heart to help women on their journey. She is an experienced professional and definitely has much wisdom to share. I think everyone who takes the opportunity to listen to what she has to say will be enlightened and encouraged. As a coach, helping women through their various seasons is my expertise, I understand the importance of why we need mentors that are willing to share their insight and wisdom. You’re Not Listening to… What I Have to Say can provide such guidance.
Wendy Gladney
Coach, Consultant, Author, Speaker
Life can be challenging for young girls and women as they start their journey. La Faye Baker uses her words and experiences as roadmaps for self-discovery and introspection, helping young women on their unapologetic paths to greatness, strength, power, purpose, and most importantly, self-love and self-acceptance. This amazing book reminds young women that “They are enough!” It is evident that La Faye’s words are authentic and grounded in her life experiences, making this book a well of truth and wisdom.
Her advice for living an amazing life will resonate not only with young women but also with young men due to its simplicity and applicability to the fast-paced life of the modern world. La Faye is truly a Wonder Woman who continues to inspire the next generation of phenomenal female leaders with her life, wisdom, and experiences.
This book is a winner, and La Faye is a true “s-heroe” for sharing her knowledge with young girls and women, who are the future humanitarians, entrepreneurs, and thought leaders of the world.
Dr. Levi Harrison
Orthopedic Surgeon, Author, Podcaster, Fitness Entrepreneur